Finally Shahl logged-in in my life ... A recap

It was soaring temperature in the midst of summmers at my Home town popularly known as Orange city. I was just sitting idle with not much work at my office busy trying some crazy websites at my Comp, and with no one intersting to chat at my Messenger. While trying some rooms at Yahoo messenger, i just happen to notice an interesting ID, shahla_nigar logging into some room at Yahoo. So with a message, Hi wana chat ? thus commenced an unending friendship of ours. With increasing chat & seldom phone calls our session of knowing and exploring eachother carried forward. As we turned good friends we had all good reasons to increase our number of calls thus eliminating our chat session over the internet. I vividly remember those long hours of discussion over the phone anything and everything under the sun and over the moon. The more i talked to her the more i got conviced about her sensible and sober nature. Thus giving all reasons to get inclined towards her persona compelling me to open my mouth to go ahead in relationship.

Finally, it was Nov 21st 2005, when i colllected all my courage and said, "Shahl, we are have been good friends & have a very good understanding, what if we come together". She smiled but didnt replied to the posed message. It took a while to take these words seriously, but as time passed she was rather compelled to give a thought on this formal proposal. hence we decided to meet before we could really work out to go ahead in life. It took couple of months to visit her place at Bihar, thanks to my busy schedule which really wreck some havoc in the midst for not meeting my commitment. But often such havoc proves great in life. So somewhere in the last week of Sept 06 i booked my tickets from Bombay all the way travelling to her place which took approximately 40 hours. I still remember it was a day with shower at her place and i was pretty nervous since it was my first meeting. The nervousness or fear remained till she appeared in Blue at the decided place trying to find me dialing my cell. My long tiresome journey to reach her place soon paid off as I sat accross her taking lunch and soon reminded her about my proposal to which she sighed and said, "man take ur time you are here for three days". But it was all decided and the ball was on her court, i was anxious to see her dealing the posed proposal of mine..

Thus after my return from a place life has taken a different shape, i was all focussed to workout things between me and her. I guess this was the most undigestable stuff for my parents the moment i shared with them, as they had whole lot of answered querries and apprehansion, like am i competent enough to take a wise descion (since i happen to be the youngest in my family), as how z the girl and her family, and that she is still from a far off place etc etc.... It took long or was really testing time for me to crack this case, with soon my sister and brother joining me convincing my Mom. Finally it got clicked and I could see things happenning in such a fashion that it sound that I am in a wonderland. Now things are a family affair, we could see both the family sitting together and in no time they declared our engagement this January. Often I scribble my head in utter shock as how a person met on net seems to be my wife in making. So with great expectation of having a journey orignating from net would hopefully has a good road ahead, where we would often cherish our memories of coming together.

Md Ziyaullah Khan

Pune