“Just know that I am there... always…

I was rather late in posing this post, as how I felt Shahl being a Psychologist. Her credentials of being a counselor of par excellence were still to be applauded. At time I turn low in life the person whom I really count upon is Shahl of course. Her words really has all depth vis-à-vis to its relevance. After talking to her I just gathered the shattered Ziya of me and head with a novel energy. To some of her powerful mantras which she keep sharing revolves around is about family and relationship. While I am pretty contrast to this aspect of life, far off from my family and such relations, often believed in man made relationship. Thus something which I kept learning since past two years could be jotted down this way … (could express easily .. thanks the knack of my Copy Cat attitude..)

To learn they cannot make anyone love them. All they can do is let themselves be loved.

To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.

To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.

To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in those they love, and it can take many years to heal them.

“To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.”

To learn that there are people who love them dearly, but simply have not yet learned how to express or show their feelings.

To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.

To learn that it is not enough that they forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.

And finally adds “Just know that I am there... always…

MZK